6 Year New Yorkiversary!

Each year it’s become a tradition to blog on my New York Anniversary. I can’t believe it’s been 6 years and the amount of big life changing events that have happened. It make me so fortunate for this life path and makes me think of how everything could have been so different.

Last year I completed my first half marathon and got engaged on the same day. Went to Ireland, Savannah, and lots of trips back to Florida. Got a new job. Was in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade again. Still have the cutest cats on the planet.

Here are a few of my favorite photos from the past year.

Every year, I try to take away an important life lesson that I’ve learned. This past year it’s tough. I’d say being at my old job was very challenging. I had no management or guidance, the commute to the city everyday was exhausting. I also felt that I wasn’t achieving my full potential, only pushing paper. In my new job I absolutely love that it’s not only closer to home but I’m doing event planning which is my dream job. Yet, maybe it’s the timing of things, but I’m currently taking on multiple responsibilities at the moment, leaving me back to feeling exhausted.

My lesson here is to try to listen to the signs. When I had one of my biggest meltdowns at my old job, I was on the phone with my dad, taking my usual commute and had heard gunshots behind me. A drunk man welding a knife at a police office was shot right outside my office. If I was literally a minute earlier I would have been in the crossfires. It was a huge sign, and I then took every ounce of energy to looking for a new job. I’m much happier where I’m at but again very tired. I’m hoping to get back into more meditation, reading, writing, walking. Things that will bring me more joy and calm.

As for this year, I’m excited for more trips, brunches, seeing friends and family, and marrying my best friend. xoxo

5th Year Anniversary in New York!

This past Thursday, January 21, 2016 marked my 5th year anniversary living in New York!

5 years ago I remember packing my bags and making my way to the big city. As my cab drove past Central Park, I looked out at the beautiful park and horse-drawn carriages.  I remember locking that moment in my memory. Not only was it my first day living in NYC but it was the first time I’d ever seen snow.

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Flash forward as I look back on the past year, I’m flooded with so many wonderful milestones. Last year I started working at WebMD, I moved into a new house upstate in Suffern, NY with my boyfriend, I bought a car, and adopted two of the cutest kittens alive – Earl and Lady Grey (like the teas). I also traveled to Iceland and was the first Monahan to be in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.

Photos of all these adventures below.

Every year I write an anniversary blog post. Each year I like to reflect on one thing that I’ve learned, and last year involved an overwhelming amount of change.

  • Adjusting to a new job involved change.
  • Living with my boyfriend, being a homeowner in a new town and having a new commute involved change.
  • Visiting Iceland, a country I’ve never been too – change both change of cultures and changing me as a person.

It’s been a rollercoaster of adapting, mixed with stress, and just trying to figure it out. For the most part I think I’ve learned that change is exciting and you never know where it will take you.

The best thing to do is to keep an open mind. Eventually you’ll get into a flow, and even if you’re not comfortable with that person, place, or thing that’s changed you, you can either embrace it or learn from it and move on.

Over the next year to come I’m excited to see where life takes me. I’ve already booked a trip to Ireland, Florida, and Charleston. I’ll also be running/speed-walking the Disney Princess Half Marathon in February.

Finally my main focus this year is to make new friends in my area and to focus more of my time on my passion for food. This means a lot more cooking, blogging about health and fitness, and of course continuing to eat my way through NY.

UPDATE:

While this blog post was sitting in “Draft”, I found out some very heartbreaking news that my grandmother passed away on Sunday, January 24, 2016 at the age of 88 years young.

I want to include her in my post because she means everything to me and who I’ve become as a person.

On Sunday my dad sent me this photo of the hotel bill from my grandma and grandpa’s honeymoon in New York. The date (1/21) is my NYC anniversary – only 60 years prior. I thought that was very serendipitous.unnamed-2

 

I miss you terribly but you’ll never be forgotten. I will continue to take you with me through every journey and milestone. Rest in peace grandma, love you.

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Tea + Purpose Recap – Developing Your Life Philosophy

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I know creative abundance is available to me in this moment…

This is how we began Tea + Purpose, a new monthly tea meetup that connects over a topic area allowing more women to create awareness and action in their lives, all created by my dear friend Carla Blumenthal. For this meetup, Sarah Kathleen Peck, writer of the blog “It Starts With“, joined and guided us to develop our own life philosophy framework.

We started the meetup with tea and scones at Press Tea, one of my favorite tea shops in the city. As more and more women trickled in we gathered around and got started with introductions. We began with answering this question – What have you been proud of so far this year? This question really opened people up a little bit more,  in addition to signing this realness contract, promising to bring our real selves to the tea table.

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Following intros, Sarah dove right into asking the group this question, when was the last time you felt an adrenaline rush? A lot of folks including myself mixed this feeling up with the feeling of anxiety. With all these fears, moments of anxiety, adrenaline, and vulnerability stemmed raw emotion and positivity. Here’s some of the comments I scribbled from this round of discussion:

  • It doesn’t always get easier the more you get into something and put it on the line. It’s a leap of faith and only gets more risky.
  • It’s hard to go into the unknown and know it’s going to be okay.
  • You have permission to screw up and change your mind.
  • We’re all humans having an experience.
  • Showing up everyday counts for something.

We were next asked to talk about happiness. What’s the definition of happiness and is it even the goal? Takeaways from this included:

  • Happiness is a feeling of inner peace and reflection.
  • Be in the present. It isn’t about if I get this job then I’ll be happy. Once you get to that goal or thing you’ll always be looking for the next thing. This turns into a vicious cycle, wondering if you’ll ever find peace and happiness.
  • Take away the “SHOULDS”. I should be like this. I should be doing that. Take it away. You don’t need to feel guilty about anything, just be yourself.
  • Set time aside to think and reflect. Schedule unplanned time.
  • When someone is being negative it means they need love or a boundary.
  • What you give attention to grows. If someone says something negative or you believe something negative it grows. If you don’t accept these things, it can’t grow… This has been the biggest eye opener for me because for the longest time I’ve said and thought about my job search in this way. I blame the economy, the competition here, thinking I’ll never get something. If I keep thinking that I won’t find anything, then I really won’t. Acknowledge. Don’t think about the negative. Don’t engage. Then the other person/thing is left with it.

Next came loneliness. What is it and why do we experience it?

This was also another awakening. When I feel lonely, it’s particular when I work from home. I’ve always wondered why I feel this way. Sarah shed some light on this for me by sharing some of her tools on how to improve this feeling of loneliness.

  • Use your voice. Ask yourself how much did you talk today, sing, anything? I should also note that this is why Sarah opened up this discussion, so that everyone could talk instead of her doing all the talking.
  • Language – Write and reflect.
  • Touch – Maybe we’re feeling lonely because we haven’t been touched all day like a hug or a handshake.
  • Eyes closed – Not sleeping but understanding and being aware of the moments and your surroundings. Meditation. Focus on your breathing.
  • Connect outward – Giving a warm real hug. Sharing with others.

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Lately, I’ve been experiencing more revelations from friends (and in this case strangers) about who I am as a person. I’ve realized I can do a much better job at speaking up and showing who I truly am as a person. I’ve learned that I’m not the only person that has these fears or feelings and have come to peace with feeling vulnerable, it just means you’re being real.

Solving Problems Over Dinner – My Project Exponential Experience

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About six months ago a friend had told me about a dinner event called Project Exponential. Each month, a woman named Michelle Welsh plans and carefully selects a group of artists, professionals and entrepreneurs to attend each dinner.  It begins with an application and ends in stories and connections. Here’s my dinner story…

We started the night at Bacaro in Chinatown with a spread of food and place cards in front of us. Leading up to the event I felt totally disconnected from the whole event. My mind was racing with unanswered questions. What was I to expect? Who was I meeting? There was no flutter of mention or buzz on Twitter. No hashtag. I wondered if this was some kind of Fight Club thing. What happens at dinner stays at dinner. I’m so used to being able to find information I need, this unknown was rather exciting. 

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I’d come to learn that Michelle doesn’t share people’s names or titles ahead of time because she doesn’t wants these dinners to be confined to what someone does for a living but instead focus on who they are as a person. She also does heavy research on everyone ahead of time to form the perfect connections. With this in mind, when I arrived it felt like solving a puzzle with my group as to what’s the connection here.

At first, we were instructed to break into groups of the four people seated closest to you and ask each other a problem that you are facing that you would like to solve right now. The person that was supposed to sit next to me was sick and couldn’t attend. I’m still unsure if this makes a difference, but I soon realized everyone in my group used to work in finance, except for myself… Admittedly, it was a tough first round for me. I always feel uncomfortable talking about myself, I’m a much stronger listener. Plus, the problem I’m facing right now is the fact that I’m going through this adult/figuring it all out phase in my life right now. At the time it felt selfish discussing, but now as I write this and in weeks passing I’ve realized I’m not alone in this feeling. I’ve been diving into more meals and conversations with really interesting thought-provoking women and friends and now know I’m not the only one that feels this way. 

For round two, we had to match the person with the same letter we had on our card. No match. Again, I think my match was sick so I joined in on the same group I started with. We were served our next course of gnocchi, salad, and steak, and Michelle passed around sets of small envelopes with questions for discussion in them. Mine said, “What relationships have been most meaningful to you? Who are your mentors?” while the guy next to me had, “Mistakes you’ve learned from. Dare to share.” Both great conversation starters.

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Following this discussion we had to flip our cards over and find our match according to the symbol on the back of our cards. I finally had a match and had a really great conversation with this woman. She could relate to my problem and we shared an additional problem of connection, as we both felt that there should be better resources to connect people in NYC. I like to think I’m solving that problem in a way with Women Who Brunch, I want to connect more women in New York but feel it could grow to so much more… This short discussion with her and this dinner experience has made me really think about how we connect. I’ve always been a fan of curated and unique events and the connection between people, but how can these connections form stronger more meaningful relationships? It’s a problem I’m excited to dig deeper in.

Once dessert came we were asked to meet someone we didn’t talk to yet. I met a guy that does photography and asked him to tell me more about his personal photo projects. He told me about how he enjoys photographing hearts in odd places. He mostly shares these on his Instagram and calls it love in unexpected places. I love the thought of looking for love, almost like a scavenger hunt. He then pointed to the dessert cake where pieces of it had fallen and naturally formed a heart. It was one of the best things I heard all day.

Of course, then, another guy had chimed in with a photo project his friend told him about called 100 Happy Days. The challenge is, can you stay happy for 100 days in a row? According to the site 71% of people won’t finish the challenge because they get too busy or state they don’t have the time. I’m always up for a good challenge and have been doing it ever since the dinner. It’s honestly made me feel a million times better. I used to write everyday and do a similar project called 365 Project, where I’d take a photo once a day. It’s really made me feel more grateful about each day and I actually look forward to finding something in my life that makes me happy each day even if it’s something small.

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Finally, Michelle wrapped up dinner with giving us these cards that say, what is your special, as a reminder that everyone has something special about themselves.

I’d love to hear what your special is in the comments. Let’s discuss! xo

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3 Years and Counting! A Recap of Another Year in the Big City.

Thank you Timehop for the reminder that today is my third year living in New York!  Time really does fly when you’re having fun.

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Honestly, there are some things that haven’t changed since last year.

My cat still goes into baby mode every time I visit Florida.

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It also seems to snow every single January 21st anniversary. (Real picture from today.)

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I am still freelancing which is unfortunate. It’s not that I dislike where I work but definitely want to settle into one permanent company, not only to get my career where I want to go but I’m exhausted jumping from one client to the next. People seriously take having a laptop at work for granted. Benefits too.  Spoiler alert to anyone who freelances and is over 26: Obamacare is the worst. Be very grateful your company takes care of you and/or your parents. This is also just one of the harsh realities I faced in year 3…  Most of all though, I really miss having coworkers. People I can talk to or grab a drink with, can’t do that as a freelancer. In part, I know it’s still the economy but hope this goal is reached in year 4.

I still live in Astoria and still love it. Although we did lose a pretty big member of the family this year…

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New Changes & Milestones:

Year three marked the start of Women Who Brunch and my leap into entrepreneurship. In the summer of 2013 my friend Megan and I took on this project to crate a monthly brunch series dedicated to inspiring and connecting more women over a great meal. I’m still blown away by the success and growth we’ve had so far. We have a new logo, just wrapped up our 6th brunch, have over 900 members, and have met amazing women from all backgrounds including agencies, startups, to companies such as MSNBC, Eventbrite, Mashable, CBS, Hearst, and Warner Bros. I love planning these events and can’t wait for what the next year will bring.

Bonus: I’m also very excited for my first speaking role this Friday at #CMGRHangout, where I’ll be discussing how I’ve built this awesome food community.

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This year with Digital DUMBO I have successfully planned 2 conference, 31 events (with Google Local, Bing, Huge, 7Digital, Maker’s Row, and Venmo to name a few), and grew our Twitter following 174% and Facebook to 57% over 2013. Woop! Our events and social media are only going to get better.

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Lessons I’ve learned:

My biggest lesson over the past year was learning to say no. As much as you try, you simply can’t do it all here. I’ve had to learn how to say no to many requests and opportunities that just aren’t the right fit for me. This really forces you to do some soul searching and truly think about what it is you want. Additionally, learning how to say no helps understand how your time and efforts could be used more effectively.

Year 3 Recap:

I got to visit Austin. When you’ve lived in NY you realize Austin isn’t really that “weird”.

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And Nashville:

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Tried a cronut:

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Took part in the Color Run:

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Attend my favorite NYC event Jazz Age Lawn Party:

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Learned a new skill, how to make jam:

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Saw Anchorman 2 film in the city:

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And embraced the beauty New York City has to offer. Here’s to year 4!

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The Instagram Photo That Gave Me a Swift Kick to Start Writing Again

Humans of New York

Last week as I was scrolling through Instagram, this image and quote from Humans of New York caught my eye.

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I’ll be honest, I don’t write as often as I should. But this quote was a true awakening. It reminded me of when I just graduated college. Almost every single day for about an hour I would just write and recollect my thoughts at nearby cafes. It was one of my most fondest memories. It was my personal getaway to recap the struggles (and still struggles) of the economy and post-grad life, finding my way, logging weight goals (I lost 80lbs in about a year during my senior year and documented it both on and offline), and reenacting fun I had with friends in college. I could relive it all or just reflect, even for a few short moments. It was pure bliss.

Immediately after reading this quote, I grabbed a new Moleskine notebook and got started. I’ve been writing every single day since then ( a whole week straight so far! ). Just like anything else you need to make time for it, and it’s definitely a habit I’m excited about forming.

I’d love to hear from you: What are your daily improvement habits? How do you strike a balance to make time for these habits?

For me, I’ve started to only bring a book with me whenever I’m running out the door, that way I can squeeze reading time into my commute time. Then, I’ll set aside an hour to write in the evening and use my Lift app to hold myself accountable. It’s also fun to check things off a to-do list.

Would love to hear from you! Let’s explore in the comments below.

#SMWNYC Recap: Parties, Stories, and Jeopardy

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Last week was one hell of a roller coaster. I’d like to keep up with my goal of at least 1 blog post a week. It’s been a major struggle with the two new jobs, but as a magician told me this weekend (yes, you heard that right), you have to do what you love. It took him 3 years of practicing his craft and is finally doing what he loves. I met him this past weekend at a non-profit gala I helped volunteer for, he made a valid point — you can always have your day job but should always at least have your side art, your passion projects. And that’s exactly why I continue to push forward with my writing.

During Social Media Week, I successfully made it through 7 events and produced my first (sold out) event with DigitalDUMBO. As a promise to myself I wanted to make a recap of all the events and panels I attended. Thanks for bearing through this novel, but I promise there’s a ton of great takeaways.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2013:

6:00-8:00pm: Doing It Live: The Integration of Social in Live Events

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Bridget Carey – Senior Editor @CNet – @BridgetCarey

Ben Hindman – Co-founder and CEO @SplashThat – @bjamin32

David Adler – Founder and CEO @BizBash_News – @DavidAdlerLinkedIn

Shawn Busteed – SVP, Business Strategy @TBAGlobal – @Busteed

Lauren Drell – Campaigns Editor @Mashable – @drelly

Social Media Week New York 2013- Doing It Live Panel

– Always follow-up after an event. Don’t do a post-event survey, instead try a photo gallery, they have higher traffic rates.

– With Live events – Twitter can be a simple way to outline what happened when you’re writing a story, especially useful for journalists and writers.

– Make it easy on attendees. Provide a list of the speakers, twitter handles, and hashtags.

– The decor is the event. Make sure your brand is on everything and do it in a unique way.

– Think of creative ways to thank attendees.

– A great way to influence people to tweet is to make them look awesome at an event or give them something awesome to photograph or share. Don’t make tweeting forced.

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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

9:30am-10:30am: A Conversation with Neil Blumenthal, Co-Founder and Co-CEO, Warby Parker

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– Businesses can create good in the world.

– One of the reasons why people leave their jobs isn’t because of compensation, it’s because they stopped learning.

– [Warby Parker] always trying to merge the physical and the digital. Connecting people on an emotional level.

Examples of this innovation:

– Always asks themselves the following questions:

  • Is this a unique experience?
  • Is this authentic?
  • Does it have a compelling narrative?
  • Does it do good in the world?
  • Are we consistently learning?

– If you want to build relationships you need to let people in and be vulnerable.

– Give people a reason to share and they will.

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6:00- 7:30pm: The 140 Character Resume: How Your Social Media Footprint Can Get You Hired.

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Lars Schmidt, Head of Talent Acquisition and Innovation @NPR – @ThisisLars

Sharon Feder, COO @Mashable – @Sharonfeder

Brooke Camp, Talent Acquisition Leader New and Digital @NBC Universal – @BCeenByMe

Kathryn Minshew, Founder and CEO @DailyMuse – @kmin

Hagos Mehreteab, Director of Talent Acquisition at AppNexus @AppNexus – @gosnew

Social Media Week New York 2013 140 Resume

– Have an online presence and tailor it to your personality.

– Build your own projects. Create content and blogs.

– Consistency in your online profiles is important. Before you even start, scrub your online identity. Be professionally attractive & approachable.

– With every single message you send, you’re making an impression. Up to you if it’s good or bad.

– One big mistake is to ask for something from people you follow before you build a relationship with them.

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Thursday, February 21, 2013

9:30am-11:00am: The Evolution of the Modern Community Manager

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Casey Carter- Social Media and Digital Marketing Manager @SoulCycle –@caseyculture

Kristin Maverick – Director, Earned Media @BarbarianGroup – @kmarerick

Joanna Firneno – Brand Strategist at @Percolate – @joannaf

Brian Ries – Senior Social Media Editor at @Newsweek and @DailyBeast – @moneyries

Mike Hayes – Social Media Editor @Buzzfeed – @michaelhayes

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Evolution of the Modern Community Manager

– The old way community management was done, included relying on content calendars. You’d develop the calendar and put it out. But with working on a hockey brand (Brian Ries) we noticed that the conversation escalated during game time which meant after 6pm — after working hours. There was a lack of real-time.

– You need to be flexible when real-time event happen. With Breaking News Buzzfeed comments within the first 15 minutes to elevate the conversation. People think if you’re not tweeting and commenting that much, then you’re not really there.

– How can brands work/change real-time. – Create a foundation on your brand and voice. Example: Oreo has a style guide. Like Oreo and the Super Bowl. It has to have that perfect formula. It blended the Blackout Meme with America’s love for Super Bowl Ads. They did something similar during the Grammy’s and it didn’t have the same effect because people don’t care as much about ads during the Grammys.

– When jumping on new platforms (Vine, Rebelmouse). First contact these companies, seeing if you can secure a domain and then set up a coffee meeting and see what the best approaches are for your brand. Secure your social presence.

– Social is just another piece of the business pie.

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12:00pm-1:30pm: The Golden Age of Digital Storytelling

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Josh Sternberg – Media & Publishing Reporter at Digiday- @joshsternberg

Jon Steinberg – President and COO at Buzzfeed – @jonsteinberg

Lee Nadler – Marketing Communications Manager at MINI USA- @leenadler

Sabrina Caluori – Vice President, Social Media and Performance Marketing at HBO & Cinemax- @sabrinacaluori

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Golden Age of Storytelling

– Connect the world through conversations. Example when HBO did a Mistakes Girls Make hashtag and content, this happened alongside the conversations of New Years Resolutions.

– You can’t do anything good without actually working on it.

– We’re moving away from interrupted experiences (homepage take overs) into more custom emotional experiences. Example: Mini’s End of the World Campaign.

– When jumping on new platforms (Vine, Rebelmouse. ect.). Workshop with it, gather your team up and first understand: What’s my personal experience with this?

– Humanize and connect with users in real life. Try not to automate everything. Don’t be sales-y, understand the point of view of what makes this product or TV show awesome and be authentic.

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6:30pm – 9:00pm: dd:SOCIAL SMW – “Majors and Minors” Presented by Digital DUMBO & Translation

Recap of photos from running my first DigitalDUMBO Event.

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Friday February 22, 2013: 

2:30pm-4:00pm – The Future of Branded Experiences

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Nick Parish – Editorial Director, Americas at Contagious – @paryshnikov

Dave Brown – Director, Digital Strategy at MKG – @holidaymatinee

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Future of Branded Experiences

The best part of this panel was that it involved a DIY Jeopardy board. Leave to Dave to make magic among the digital and physical space. The “host” read off an audience member’s Twitter handle and they got to choose from each category on the board. The two panelists Dave Brown and Nick Parish would give their answers. Everyone was a winner.  And it all started with this quote:

Do what you do so well that they will want to see it again and bring their friends. – Walt Disney

Final Takeaways:

– You don’t need to buy your voice in the world.

– The biggest danger brands can do not being interesting enough.

– Data can be used to make smarter decisions about events by using online data to help make offline decisions.

– Marketplace Disruption – Airbnb is changing the hotel industry and challenging how hotel’s need to rethink their business models. Plated and Blue Apron is changing the food industry. Changing how Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s will rethink their models. Who Gives a Crap is changing the way we think about sanitation and the fundamental need for paper goods. Skillshare reminds us we’re all teachers.

– Brands need to be more human, have a conversation. Empower your Community Manager! Everyone needs to be integrated. Sit around the same table. Brands need to start talking with us and stop talking at us. 

– People are consuming the content we write in unthinkable ways. Make content consumption a comfortable and seamless user experience – personal for anytime, anywhere, and on any device.

– We’re creating products that provide meaning to people’s lives in frictionless ways. ( Wemo, Twine, Goodnight Lamp.)

– Let’s make a human connection.

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Pick Yourself.

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Florida coast from an airplane

Just before take off I hear “you can always come back home” on the radio station. Right before the Jetblue TV’s cut off to the flight attendants giving their instructions. I’m grateful for these signs, leaving Florida and my dad is always the hardest part of any trip. On the one hand Florida is safe and familiar – it’s what I’ve always known. And then there’s New York – stressful, difficult, uncomfortable.

Reflecting on the future, as many do this time of year. I remembered when I first moved here. I remember being picked up by the Guggenheim because of my laid back attitude, my confidence. I need to get back to that place. I need to stop worrying and start thinking positive, and more importantly not let my surroundings beat out the person I am. Realistically, NY is always going to be a pain in the ass. It’s never going to change, so I shouldn’t let it change me.

Of my many resolutions for the new year. It is clear to those that know me that I want to find my dream job. To come to work everyday and know I’m doing work that matters. I had an interesting conversation with my dad before I left, about how we’ve started to hire few and hire those that will do more for less. In turn quality ultimately gets compromised.

As another resolution of mine (to read more, at least a half hour a day and/or on my commute) I’m currently reading Seth Godin’s new book The Icarus Deception. Just recently reading this:

Our cultural instinct is to wait to get picked. To seek out the permission, authority, and safety that comes from a publisher or talk-show host or even a blogger who says, “I pick you.”

Once you reject the impulse and realized that no one is going to select you – then you can actually get to work. 

Once you understand that there are problems waiting to be solved, once you realize that you have all the tools and all the permission you need, then opportunities to contribute abound. The opportunity is not to have your resume picked from a pile but to lead. 

When we take responsibility and eagerly give credit, doors open. When we grab a microphone and speak up, we’re a speak closer to doing the work we’re able to do.

No one is going to pick you. Pick yourself. 

Last year I was waiting to get picked. This year I’m picking myself.

Social Hashtag Series #1: #ChristmasInNY

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My new hashtag series sparked from a number of different places…

Beginning in October, I had the pleasure to doing 2 Instagram Meetups. One with NBCU’s Health Week. Another was an Instagram walk in Central Park with Estee Lauder using the hashtag #mysimplepleasures as the theme. Both had sparked my love for events, exploring, photography, and social media.

Another huge inspiration goes out to Jimmy Fallon’s #latenight hashtags. #IGotCaught is a personal favorite.

And finally, meeting with many people for informational interviews. The last one I conducted was with Monica Lo and Megan Nuttall who’s advice to “Do things that matter” has stuck with me ever since. Starting this series matters to me. I love creating new ideas and sharing what I’m most passionate about, social media.

Above all, lets just say I was recently left discouraged from doing the things that I know I’m capable of — there is nothing greater than proving people wrong and since then I am left with this reminder:

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“The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.”

And with that I will leave you with my first of many #hashtag series. Enjoy!

#ChristmasInNY

Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Bergdorf Goodman Window Display in NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Rockefeller Christmas Tree NYC 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Rockefeller Christmas Tree NYC 2012 #ChristmasInNY
Holiday Shopping NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY Bust Craftacular
Holiday Shopping NYC Christmas 2012 #ChristmasInNY Bust Craftacular
Toy Solider NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY
Toy Solider NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY
Unicef Snowflake NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY
Unicef Snowflake NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY
Angels NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY
Angels NYC Christmas #ChristmasInNY