5th Year Anniversary in New York!

This past Thursday, January 21, 2016 marked my 5th year anniversary living in New York!

5 years ago I remember packing my bags and making my way to the big city. As my cab drove past Central Park, I looked out at the beautiful park and horse-drawn carriages.  I remember locking that moment in my memory. Not only was it my first day living in NYC but it was the first time I’d ever seen snow.

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Flash forward as I look back on the past year, I’m flooded with so many wonderful milestones. Last year I started working at WebMD, I moved into a new house upstate in Suffern, NY with my boyfriend, I bought a car, and adopted two of the cutest kittens alive – Earl and Lady Grey (like the teas). I also traveled to Iceland and was the first Monahan to be in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.

Photos of all these adventures below.

Every year I write an anniversary blog post. Each year I like to reflect on one thing that I’ve learned, and last year involved an overwhelming amount of change.

  • Adjusting to a new job involved change.
  • Living with my boyfriend, being a homeowner in a new town and having a new commute involved change.
  • Visiting Iceland, a country I’ve never been too – change both change of cultures and changing me as a person.

It’s been a rollercoaster of adapting, mixed with stress, and just trying to figure it out. For the most part I think I’ve learned that change is exciting and you never know where it will take you.

The best thing to do is to keep an open mind. Eventually you’ll get into a flow, and even if you’re not comfortable with that person, place, or thing that’s changed you, you can either embrace it or learn from it and move on.

Over the next year to come I’m excited to see where life takes me. I’ve already booked a trip to Ireland, Florida, and Charleston. I’ll also be running/speed-walking the Disney Princess Half Marathon in February.

Finally my main focus this year is to make new friends in my area and to focus more of my time on my passion for food. This means a lot more cooking, blogging about health and fitness, and of course continuing to eat my way through NY.

UPDATE:

While this blog post was sitting in “Draft”, I found out some very heartbreaking news that my grandmother passed away on Sunday, January 24, 2016 at the age of 88 years young.

I want to include her in my post because she means everything to me and who I’ve become as a person.

On Sunday my dad sent me this photo of the hotel bill from my grandma and grandpa’s honeymoon in New York. The date (1/21) is my NYC anniversary – only 60 years prior. I thought that was very serendipitous.unnamed-2

 

I miss you terribly but you’ll never be forgotten. I will continue to take you with me through every journey and milestone. Rest in peace grandma, love you.

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3 Years and Counting! A Recap of Another Year in the Big City.

Thank you Timehop for the reminder that today is my third year living in New York!  Time really does fly when you’re having fun.

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Honestly, there are some things that haven’t changed since last year.

My cat still goes into baby mode every time I visit Florida.

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It also seems to snow every single January 21st anniversary. (Real picture from today.)

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I am still freelancing which is unfortunate. It’s not that I dislike where I work but definitely want to settle into one permanent company, not only to get my career where I want to go but I’m exhausted jumping from one client to the next. People seriously take having a laptop at work for granted. Benefits too.  Spoiler alert to anyone who freelances and is over 26: Obamacare is the worst. Be very grateful your company takes care of you and/or your parents. This is also just one of the harsh realities I faced in year 3…  Most of all though, I really miss having coworkers. People I can talk to or grab a drink with, can’t do that as a freelancer. In part, I know it’s still the economy but hope this goal is reached in year 4.

I still live in Astoria and still love it. Although we did lose a pretty big member of the family this year…

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New Changes & Milestones:

Year three marked the start of Women Who Brunch and my leap into entrepreneurship. In the summer of 2013 my friend Megan and I took on this project to crate a monthly brunch series dedicated to inspiring and connecting more women over a great meal. I’m still blown away by the success and growth we’ve had so far. We have a new logo, just wrapped up our 6th brunch, have over 900 members, and have met amazing women from all backgrounds including agencies, startups, to companies such as MSNBC, Eventbrite, Mashable, CBS, Hearst, and Warner Bros. I love planning these events and can’t wait for what the next year will bring.

Bonus: I’m also very excited for my first speaking role this Friday at #CMGRHangout, where I’ll be discussing how I’ve built this awesome food community.

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This year with Digital DUMBO I have successfully planned 2 conference, 31 events (with Google Local, Bing, Huge, 7Digital, Maker’s Row, and Venmo to name a few), and grew our Twitter following 174% and Facebook to 57% over 2013. Woop! Our events and social media are only going to get better.

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Lessons I’ve learned:

My biggest lesson over the past year was learning to say no. As much as you try, you simply can’t do it all here. I’ve had to learn how to say no to many requests and opportunities that just aren’t the right fit for me. This really forces you to do some soul searching and truly think about what it is you want. Additionally, learning how to say no helps understand how your time and efforts could be used more effectively.

Year 3 Recap:

I got to visit Austin. When you’ve lived in NY you realize Austin isn’t really that “weird”.

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And Nashville:

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Tried a cronut:

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Took part in the Color Run:

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Attend my favorite NYC event Jazz Age Lawn Party:

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Learned a new skill, how to make jam:

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Saw Anchorman 2 film in the city:

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And embraced the beauty New York City has to offer. Here’s to year 4!

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#SMWNYC Recap: Parties, Stories, and Jeopardy

Social Media Week NYC 2013

Last week was one hell of a roller coaster. I’d like to keep up with my goal of at least 1 blog post a week. It’s been a major struggle with the two new jobs, but as a magician told me this weekend (yes, you heard that right), you have to do what you love. It took him 3 years of practicing his craft and is finally doing what he loves. I met him this past weekend at a non-profit gala I helped volunteer for, he made a valid point — you can always have your day job but should always at least have your side art, your passion projects. And that’s exactly why I continue to push forward with my writing.

During Social Media Week, I successfully made it through 7 events and produced my first (sold out) event with DigitalDUMBO. As a promise to myself I wanted to make a recap of all the events and panels I attended. Thanks for bearing through this novel, but I promise there’s a ton of great takeaways.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2013:

6:00-8:00pm: Doing It Live: The Integration of Social in Live Events

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Bridget Carey – Senior Editor @CNet – @BridgetCarey

Ben Hindman – Co-founder and CEO @SplashThat – @bjamin32

David Adler – Founder and CEO @BizBash_News – @DavidAdlerLinkedIn

Shawn Busteed – SVP, Business Strategy @TBAGlobal – @Busteed

Lauren Drell – Campaigns Editor @Mashable – @drelly

Social Media Week New York 2013- Doing It Live Panel

– Always follow-up after an event. Don’t do a post-event survey, instead try a photo gallery, they have higher traffic rates.

– With Live events – Twitter can be a simple way to outline what happened when you’re writing a story, especially useful for journalists and writers.

– Make it easy on attendees. Provide a list of the speakers, twitter handles, and hashtags.

– The decor is the event. Make sure your brand is on everything and do it in a unique way.

– Think of creative ways to thank attendees.

– A great way to influence people to tweet is to make them look awesome at an event or give them something awesome to photograph or share. Don’t make tweeting forced.

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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

9:30am-10:30am: A Conversation with Neil Blumenthal, Co-Founder and Co-CEO, Warby Parker

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– Businesses can create good in the world.

– One of the reasons why people leave their jobs isn’t because of compensation, it’s because they stopped learning.

– [Warby Parker] always trying to merge the physical and the digital. Connecting people on an emotional level.

Examples of this innovation:

– Always asks themselves the following questions:

  • Is this a unique experience?
  • Is this authentic?
  • Does it have a compelling narrative?
  • Does it do good in the world?
  • Are we consistently learning?

– If you want to build relationships you need to let people in and be vulnerable.

– Give people a reason to share and they will.

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6:00- 7:30pm: The 140 Character Resume: How Your Social Media Footprint Can Get You Hired.

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Lars Schmidt, Head of Talent Acquisition and Innovation @NPR – @ThisisLars

Sharon Feder, COO @Mashable – @Sharonfeder

Brooke Camp, Talent Acquisition Leader New and Digital @NBC Universal – @BCeenByMe

Kathryn Minshew, Founder and CEO @DailyMuse – @kmin

Hagos Mehreteab, Director of Talent Acquisition at AppNexus @AppNexus – @gosnew

Social Media Week New York 2013 140 Resume

– Have an online presence and tailor it to your personality.

– Build your own projects. Create content and blogs.

– Consistency in your online profiles is important. Before you even start, scrub your online identity. Be professionally attractive & approachable.

– With every single message you send, you’re making an impression. Up to you if it’s good or bad.

– One big mistake is to ask for something from people you follow before you build a relationship with them.

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Thursday, February 21, 2013

9:30am-11:00am: The Evolution of the Modern Community Manager

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Casey Carter- Social Media and Digital Marketing Manager @SoulCycle –@caseyculture

Kristin Maverick – Director, Earned Media @BarbarianGroup – @kmarerick

Joanna Firneno – Brand Strategist at @Percolate – @joannaf

Brian Ries – Senior Social Media Editor at @Newsweek and @DailyBeast – @moneyries

Mike Hayes – Social Media Editor @Buzzfeed – @michaelhayes

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Evolution of the Modern Community Manager

– The old way community management was done, included relying on content calendars. You’d develop the calendar and put it out. But with working on a hockey brand (Brian Ries) we noticed that the conversation escalated during game time which meant after 6pm — after working hours. There was a lack of real-time.

– You need to be flexible when real-time event happen. With Breaking News Buzzfeed comments within the first 15 minutes to elevate the conversation. People think if you’re not tweeting and commenting that much, then you’re not really there.

– How can brands work/change real-time. – Create a foundation on your brand and voice. Example: Oreo has a style guide. Like Oreo and the Super Bowl. It has to have that perfect formula. It blended the Blackout Meme with America’s love for Super Bowl Ads. They did something similar during the Grammy’s and it didn’t have the same effect because people don’t care as much about ads during the Grammys.

– When jumping on new platforms (Vine, Rebelmouse). First contact these companies, seeing if you can secure a domain and then set up a coffee meeting and see what the best approaches are for your brand. Secure your social presence.

– Social is just another piece of the business pie.

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12:00pm-1:30pm: The Golden Age of Digital Storytelling

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Josh Sternberg – Media & Publishing Reporter at Digiday- @joshsternberg

Jon Steinberg – President and COO at Buzzfeed – @jonsteinberg

Lee Nadler – Marketing Communications Manager at MINI USA- @leenadler

Sabrina Caluori – Vice President, Social Media and Performance Marketing at HBO & Cinemax- @sabrinacaluori

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Golden Age of Storytelling

– Connect the world through conversations. Example when HBO did a Mistakes Girls Make hashtag and content, this happened alongside the conversations of New Years Resolutions.

– You can’t do anything good without actually working on it.

– We’re moving away from interrupted experiences (homepage take overs) into more custom emotional experiences. Example: Mini’s End of the World Campaign.

– When jumping on new platforms (Vine, Rebelmouse. ect.). Workshop with it, gather your team up and first understand: What’s my personal experience with this?

– Humanize and connect with users in real life. Try not to automate everything. Don’t be sales-y, understand the point of view of what makes this product or TV show awesome and be authentic.

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6:30pm – 9:00pm: dd:SOCIAL SMW – “Majors and Minors” Presented by Digital DUMBO & Translation

Recap of photos from running my first DigitalDUMBO Event.

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Friday February 22, 2013: 

2:30pm-4:00pm – The Future of Branded Experiences

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Nick Parish – Editorial Director, Americas at Contagious – @paryshnikov

Dave Brown – Director, Digital Strategy at MKG – @holidaymatinee

Social Media Week New York 2013 The Future of Branded Experiences

The best part of this panel was that it involved a DIY Jeopardy board. Leave to Dave to make magic among the digital and physical space. The “host” read off an audience member’s Twitter handle and they got to choose from each category on the board. The two panelists Dave Brown and Nick Parish would give their answers. Everyone was a winner.  And it all started with this quote:

Do what you do so well that they will want to see it again and bring their friends. – Walt Disney

Final Takeaways:

– You don’t need to buy your voice in the world.

– The biggest danger brands can do not being interesting enough.

– Data can be used to make smarter decisions about events by using online data to help make offline decisions.

– Marketplace Disruption – Airbnb is changing the hotel industry and challenging how hotel’s need to rethink their business models. Plated and Blue Apron is changing the food industry. Changing how Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s will rethink their models. Who Gives a Crap is changing the way we think about sanitation and the fundamental need for paper goods. Skillshare reminds us we’re all teachers.

– Brands need to be more human, have a conversation. Empower your Community Manager! Everyone needs to be integrated. Sit around the same table. Brands need to start talking with us and stop talking at us. 

– People are consuming the content we write in unthinkable ways. Make content consumption a comfortable and seamless user experience – personal for anytime, anywhere, and on any device.

– We’re creating products that provide meaning to people’s lives in frictionless ways. ( Wemo, Twine, Goodnight Lamp.)

– Let’s make a human connection.

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Curators Conference Recap: Curate your Life

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Last week I participated in the Curators Conference. As I did not want to pay $400 for admission, I decided to take what I like to call the “Hustler Approach” and volunteer for the event. To say the least it was a gruesome 12 hour day, but well worth not having to shell out the cash for the conference. Another positive was getting to experience the inner workings of running a conference, something I’ve always wanted to do.

While being a volunteer does face the disadvantage of being able to seeing every speaker, a few speakers I did manage to see stood out to me. Specifically Soraya Darabi, who is the co-founder of Foodspotting and was formerly in charge of NYTimes’ Social Media. As most speakers took the approach to talk about their company and what they do, Soraya instead, walked us through an hour by hour snapshot of her day with the apps and websites she uses daily– curating her life through social.

Her day consisted of this:

Cir.ca: News, re-imagined. (New app -not yet released.)

Path: Staying connected with family & close friends.

Reading websites: Portable, Brain Pickings, Cool Hunting

Work Flowy: Organize your brain. This tool helps organize personal to-dos, collaborate on large team projects, take notes, write research papers, keep a journal, plan a wedding, and much more.

Sparrow:  Combining email and social at the same time.

BrandYourself: Curating SEO results, your personal brand, and Google results.

Foodspotting: Visual guide to good food and where to find it.

Spotify:  Digital music service that gives you access to millions of songs.

Google + Hangouts: Video chatting, face to face.

Vimeo Staff Picks: Online videos, handpicked by the staff at Vimeo.

Art Stack: Social platform for art – the best way to discover art is through people.

Highline Park + Think + Paper: She uses this hour to get offline. Reflecting on accomplishments you made today or want to make in the future.

Brewster: Your personal address book.

Highlight: Gives you a sixth sense about the world around you, showing you hidden connections and making your day more fun.

Svpply: Online shopping. Helps you find the products you love, from the people and stores you find interesting.

This break down left me wondering– is this even true? Does anyone have a breakdown hour by hour of applications they use? Probably not, even Soraya mentions she only uses specific apps and only the most productive ones that meets her own needs. Perhaps it isn’t possible, but this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have productivity in mind.

Continuing to thinking about this concept I asked myself —Is anyone this organized? What is my daily routine?

Looking at my past few days, weeks, even months I realized I honestly don’t have one. I love to stop what I’m doing to help others but I haven’t really helped myself. Feeling completely unorganized with managing my own priorities, this is something I need to start changing.

Last night I stumbled upon a few TED Talks for inspiration and came across Matt Cutts’ speech, “Try something new for 30 days.”

“Small sustainable changes are more likely to stick.” I may not have a solid play-by-play of every hour of my day, but I can start by making small sustainable changes.

Things I would like to try for 30 days:

Dedicate an hour a day to:

  • Writing
  • Reading
  • Learning Italian
  • Gym time
  • Personal time– Including everything I need to catch up on in life, from Twitter updates to planning my birthday trip.
  • Cooking one new recipe a week
  • Trying one new restaurant per week
  • Meet 5 new people per week

Like Matt says, “the next 30 days are going to happen whether you like it or not, why not do something you’ve always wanted to try.”

What is one thing you would try for 30 days?